When so much of the news is doom and gloom, I clean the house; move a piece of furniture; rearrange my ceramics collection; and, buy fresh flowers.
Redesigning my nest gives me the illusion that I have control over what is going on in the world. It’s comforting to have a home that is welcoming.
What is your idea for holding the world at bay?
I stayed up late reading “Life Would Be Perfect If I Lived In That House” by Meghan Daum. It’s a funny and poignant look at her home search. The underlying message is that we can’t have perfect but we can have pretty darn good!
Have you ever obsessed over a house or region of the country?
The Montauk Nest Chair from West Elm is appealing.
This isn’t your grandpa’s chair with the criss-cross poly strips, which sagged under his weight. (At least that’s how it was in our house).
The chair is a bit pricey, but oh, what style. I’d use two in an enclosed front porch
http://www.westelm.com
I like this Patchwork Pouf at http://www.vivaterra.com/
I’ll bet some of you talented people could create your own version. I’m a firm believer in supporting artists, so I’ll be whipping out the credit card!
Find it at:
Last fall, branches were trimmed from the giant Oak Tree next door.
The squirrels have returned. They are frantically trying to create a new home in the crook of the tree, while the wind wails.
Have you ever noticed someone making themselves crazy, trying to make a room perfect? What results is a room that doesn’t reflect the homeowners’ personalities; OR, the room is abandoned, out of frustration.
The warmest, most inviting rooms evolve over time – not carted out of a store.
Let’s not spin into a decorating frenzy, like the squirrels.
This arrangement makes it easy to connect.
To create a comfortable conversation area, you can’t beat the classic “U-shape”. Here are some ideas…
Two chairs flanking a sofa or love seat. The chairs would face each other across a coffee table.
Two love seats facing each other, with a table between the love seats. Place a chair or ottoman at either end.
Two chairs facing a sofa and squared off; a table between is optional, or add a small table next to each chair. Add a low bench or two seating cubes at either end of the arrangement.
You can try a variation on these ideas by angling the furniture. It doesn’t work in all rooms, but can be an interesting option. Try placing two chairs across from the sofa, angled towards each other.
Ideally, you want your family or guests to easily reach a drink or refreshments on a table.
Let me know if you try any of these approaches!
Growing up, I never realized that my parents were pretty hip in their decorating choices. Check out the original mid-century modern furniture and accessories in their living room. This was taken the day of my grammar school graduation.
To this day, I like rooms with clean lines and just a few accessories to add a touch of warmth and personality. However, I will never have peacocks on my living room walls!
How did your parents or older adults influence your choices as you were growing up?
Eclectic ornaments add a personal touch.
Decorating Tips
This month it’s all about holiday decorations.
1. Battery operated candles are useful and safer if you have a fireplace and a real Christmas tree. Scent free will not compete with the other holiday scents.
2. Concentrate your holiday décor in the room(s) where you spend the most time. Small items scattered about won’t have visual impact.
3. Try multiple trees in the family room. Have fun – a small one for the kids; perhaps a themed tree; and a large “anything goes” tree. Tie the look together with the same fabric or coordinated tree skirts. Fabric stores have loads of remnants that are good for this purpose.
4. When you haul those boxes down from the attic, take a good look – are there decorations that you’ll never use again? Donate them.
5. Please don’t mix the secular with the religious. The giant snow globe? The nativity scene? Better if they are separated (front yard / back yard).
6. You can still have a festive feeling, even if you don’t follow Christmas. Buy solid color ornaments in your holiday colors and place them in a vase or glass bowl; use white and gold runners/linens; bring in branches from the yard and place them in colorful vases.
7. Put away your year round treasures and substitute your holiday collections. Example: remove the pottery from the armoire and fill it with your collection — Santas, Snowmen, etc.
8. Don’t stress out. Your friends don’t really care about your house; they want to spend time with you. Home Decorating is like a relationship – you can’t have perfect, but you can have pretty darn good!
Fall is a good time to paint, and refresh your rooms, before the holidays.